69 Risky Texts to Send to Your Crush When You Want Him

There’s something electrifying about having a crush—the fluttering heartbeats, the wondering “what ifs,” the spark of connection that’s still unspoken. But sometimes, a bold move is all it takes to shift things from “maybe” to “let’s see where this goes.” That’s where a perfectly risky text comes in. Whether you want to charm him, tease him, or make your feelings undeniably clear, these texts can help you do just that—with flair, heart, and a touch of danger. Ready to play with fire? Here are 69 risky texts that might just spark something unforgettable.

💬 Flirty and Fun: Tease Him Into Thinking About You

These texts are playful and light, designed to make him smile, blush, or hit reply faster than he expected.

• “So… are we pretending not to have chemistry or are you just shy?”
• “I was going to wait for you to text first, but I got bored of pretending I don’t want you.”
• “If I said I was thinking about you in the shower, would you stop what you’re doing or keep reading?”
• “Careful—I’m in a dangerously flirtatious mood tonight.”
• “You might need a fire extinguisher… I’m feeling kind of hot. 🔥”
• “Tell me something you shouldn’t tell me right now.”
• “Bet I could distract you with just one sentence. Want proof?”
• “If I send a risky text, will you still respect me in the morning?”
• “Ever thought about what we’d be like… together?”
• “I had a dream about you last night. Wanna guess what you were doing?”
• “What are you wearing? Wait—don’t answer unless it’s tight or nothing.”
• “I’m in bed. Alone. Should I stay that way?”
• “I dare you to make me blush.”
• “Wanna come over and help me pretend we’re just friends?”
• “Just a warning—I bite when I like someone.”
• “Trying really hard not to imagine your hands on me. Failing.”
• “How is it fair you’re hot and mysterious?”
• “Do you always look this good, or is this just for me?”
• “Would it be inappropriate to say I want to kiss you? Because I do.”
• “Are you free tonight, or do I have to flirt with you from a distance again?”

❤️ Straight-Up Bold: Say What You Really Want

These are for when you’re done playing games. It’s all in—or all in trouble.

• “I want you. Not in a cute way. In a ‘get over here’ kind of way.”
• “I’ve imagined kissing you more times than I’ll admit.”
• “If you don’t make a move soon, I’m going to.”
• “Here’s a risky thought—I think we’d be incredible together.”
• “What would you do if I showed up at your place wearing just a hoodie?”
• “Let’s stop pretending this is just innocent.”
• “I’m not just into you. I’m wildly, stupidly drawn to you.”
• “I don’t text like this to just anyone. You’re the exception.”
• “I want you to want me back—and not subtly.”
• “You’re the first person I think about when I wake up. And the last when I go to bed.”
• “You feel like a secret I can’t keep anymore.”
• “If you kissed me right now, I wouldn’t stop you.”
• “You’re the risk I want to take.”
• “There’s something between us. Tell me you feel it too.”
• “What if I said I’m done pretending I don’t want more?”
• “Don’t worry, I won’t fall for you. Just kidding. I already have.”
• “If I sent a pic, would you be able to handle it?”
• “This might ruin everything… but I want you.”
• “Being near you makes it hard to think straight. Or behave.”
• “Tell me to stop texting like this… or don’t.”

🧠 Clever & Confident: For When You Want to Intrigue Him

These texts are charming, witty, and just the right amount of dangerous—perfect for a cerebral crush.

• “Plot twist: I like you. What happens next?”
• “Let’s skip the part where we pretend this isn’t going somewhere.”
• “You’re messing with my concentration. Got any solutions?”
• “I’d write you a love letter, but I don’t think you’d survive the last paragraph.”
• “What would you say if I said I wanted to get to know you… horizontally?”
• “If flirting were a sport, I’d still let you win.”
• “Let’s do something dangerous—like fall for each other.”
• “My favorite distraction? Three guesses, but you’ll only need one.”
• “You’re the reason I’ve rewritten this message three times.”
• “You seem like trouble. Good thing I like trouble.”
• “I’m not saying I’m yours… unless you’re into that.”
• “How do you feel about bending the rules… together?”
• “You + me + one weekend = story worth keeping secret.”
• “I didn’t mean to flirt. It just happens when I talk to you.”
• “You make self-control feel overrated.”
• “If this text is a bad idea, I don’t want to be right.”
• “I know we’re just talking, but my mind has already skipped ahead.”
• “What’s more fun: flirting with you or fantasizing about you? Trick question.”
• “I should be focused on work, but here I am texting you.”
• “Warning: I’ve been known to make good boys think bad things.”

🥺 Sweet but Sultry: When You Want Depth With Desire

These blend vulnerability with heat—perfect when you want to show it’s not just about fun, but something deeper.

• “I like you more than I probably should—and that scares me in the best way.”
• “There’s something about you that makes me want to be honest… and a little reckless.”
• “I want to be your peace and your thrill.”
• “You don’t have to say anything. Just know I’m thinking about you.”
• “You make me feel like I’m not crazy for wanting more.”
• “You’re not just hot. You’re captivating.”
• “Let’s be honest. If I were next to you right now, things would not stay innocent.”
• “You make me feel safe, and that’s the sexiest thing ever.”
• “I’d rather risk it all with you than play it safe with anyone else.”
• “You’re not mine, but I think about you like you are.”
• “I want to get close to you… in more ways than one.”
• “Can I be real? I miss you more than I probably should.”
• “Sometimes I wish you knew just how much you affect me.”
• “I’d love to hear your voice right now—even if it’s just to say goodnight.”
• “You’re not like the others. That’s why this feels so real.”
• “I’m trying not to fall too fast, but you’re making it impossible.”
• “The more I get to know you, the harder it is to stop wanting you.”
• “This isn’t just a crush anymore. It’s something else.”
• “I don’t need a label—I just need you to want me back.”
• “You could break my heart, and I’d still text you first tomorrow.”

🔥 One Text Away From Chaos: When You Want to Tip the Balance

Ready to flip the switch? These final texts are daring, bold, and just this side of “are you sure you want to send that?”

• “What would happen if I showed up at your door right now?”
• “Tell me something you’ve wanted to say… but haven’t.”
• “I’m one text away from telling you exactly what I’d do to you.”
• “We’ve got too much tension not to do something about it.”
• “Say the word, and I’ll stop playing coy.”
• “If I told you what I’m wearing, would it change how you’re reading this?”
• “Want to come over and see if the chemistry’s real?”
• “I think it’s time we stopped pretending this is casual.”
• “Let’s stop texting and start doing something about this.”
• “I’m done waiting. Either you want me, or you don’t. Which is it?”
• “What would you do if I said I’m thinking about you naked?”
• “One kiss and we’d both be in trouble.”
• “I’m not usually this forward—but you bring it out of me.”
• “If you say yes, I’ll be at your place in 30 minutes.”
• “This could either be the best decision… or our favorite mistake.”
• “Dare me to make the first move?”
• “The only thing riskier than sending this text… would be not sending it.”
• “Let’s turn this conversation into something unforgettable.”
• “I don’t want to wonder anymore. I want to know what we could be.”
• “If this is crazy, I don’t want to be sane.”

Final Thoughts

Sending a risky text can feel like stepping off a ledge—but sometimes, that’s exactly what a great story needs. Whether you’re being flirty, bold, heartfelt, or downright daring, every message you send is a chance to show your crush a glimpse of the real, confident, radiant you. So go ahead—pick your moment, hit send, and let the sparks fly. Who knows? One of these 69 texts